Can the Christian crusade against pornography bear fruit?
After avoiding talk about sex from the pulpit for years, pastors are now speaking out against porn.
August 21st, 2011
01:00 AM ET

Can the Christian crusade against pornography bear fruit?

By Ashley Fantz, CNN

Atlanta (CNN) - He is a good Christian, Michael is telling his two therapists. He goes to church most Sundays. He’s a devoted husband and father of two daughters.

“But when I would leave on business trips,” he says, “I knew I was going to get to be someone else.”

“Prostitutes, porn - I took anything I wanted.”

Sitting on a comfortable, worn couch, Michael glances out the window and sees a reflection of himself set against the parking lot of this suburban Atlanta office building. He fidgets, runs his fingers over his closely cropped blond hair and straightens his green tennis polo. He clears his throat.

Above his head hangs a poster covered in words describing feelings - angry, anxious, sad. On it is a big yellow cross.

Therapists Richard Blankenship and Mark Richardson wear solemn but empathetic expressions. Certified counselors and Christian ministers, they tell him they know how to listen and nod for him to continue.

“I’ve had a record of purity since March when I confessed to my wife,” says Michael, whose name has been changed by CNN.com to protect his privacy. “No porn, no masturbation.”

“Awesome,” Richardson says, leaning forward in his chair. “God knows you’re trying.”

This is Michael’s second week at “Faithful and True – Atlanta” a 16-week counseling program that, like dozens of others like it around the country, combines traditional psychotherapy with the Bible in an attempt to treat addictive behavior.

Blankenship, a devout Christian who once struggled with sexual abuse, says his own ordeal has helped him to treat and “graduate” nearly 500 Christian men and women with similar addictions in the last five years.

He says he has helped people achieve what he calls “sobriety,” which means resisting porn and lustful thoughts.

Though controversial in secular circles, much of the evangelical Christian world has been cheering this relatively new kind of therapy. Many believers, including many Christian leaders, consider it a powerful tool for fighting what they say is one of the modern church’s biggest problems: porn addiction.

A crusade is born

Not long ago, it was unheard of for a pastor to talk about sex from the pulpit.

Today, clergy are talking about porn.

Many evangelical pastors say they don’t have a choice. The Internet has made porn unavoidable; it’s everywhere. And porn, they say, leads to a lack of intimacy in marriage, threatening the biblical mandate to get and stay married.

In the past few years, Christian leaders have established online ministries to tackle the problem, hosting anti-porn podcast sermons and Web chats. The popular evangelical blog Crosswalk.com recently ran an article headlined “How many porn addicts are in your church?”

Christian publishers, meanwhile, have produced a wave of recent books on the subject, including popular titles like “Porn-Again Christian,” “Secret Sexual Sins: Understanding a Christian's Desire for Pornography” and “Eyes of Integrity: The Porn Pandemic and How It Affects You.”

Evangelical pastor Jeremy Gyorke recently came forward to talk about how porn has affected him. In July, the 32-year-old confessed his porn addiction in a sermon at Wyandotte Family Church, just outside Detroit.

“I’m part of a generation of Christians who grew up keeping your mouth shut about your personal life,” he says. “Goodness no, we didn’t talk about sex.”

“But now that we have a little say in the attitude of the church, we’re taking a different approach,” Gyorke continues. “We’re putting it all out there, saying you don’t have to keep secrets. Come forward and admit that you’ve made a mistake, and you can be healed.”

Gyorke said he confessed to his congregation after his wife caught him looking at porn and told him it made her feel inadequate. She wanted him to seek help and to be transparent as a man of God.

Gyorke ultimately decided that viewing any porn, even once or twice, is a problem for believers.

“It’s like a gateway drug,” he says. “You can’t just have a little look. If you look at porn, you’ve already given your heart and spirit away to someone who isn’t your wife.”

As he wrote his sermon on the matter, Gyorke felt tremendous anxiety. “I thought it would make or break me to them as their pastor,” he says.

But his flock reacted with empathy and support. Several congregants approached him afterward to say that they, too, felt that they’d acted against God by looking at porn.

Different interpretations

Though the words “porn” and “masturbation” don’t appear in the Bible, Gyorke believes the biblical verdict is clear. “Sexual immorality is mentioned a lot in the Bible, and that is what porn is,” he says.

He quotes the Gospel of Matthew: “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

“Porn is lust, and lust is a sin,” the pastor said.

Many religious scholars say that such a view reflects just one of many interpretations.

“One school of biblical study says that desire is a problem and needs to be monitored as a serious threat to salvation,” says Boston University theology professor Jennifer Wright Knust.

But Knust points to scriptural passages that appear to endorse sexual desire, including the Song of Solomon, a poem that some scholars say depicts two lovers graphically describing each other’s anatomy in an ode to unmarried sex.

“This is not new. It’s a cherry-picking of scripture used to address what’s happening right now in popular culture,” says Knust, author of the recent book “Unprotected Texts: The Bible’s Surprising Contradictions on Sex and Desire.” “The new thing is that it’s being used by so-called Christian therapists.”

Knust says the anti-porn trend in Christian therapy reflects new questions in broader society about what constitutes an appropriate relationship, about gender roles and rules, and about what marriage really means.

“People are concerned and confused, and want to know if God is speaking to us in our sexual roles,” she says. “Can we find answers in divine revelation? People have always hoped that there can be certainty in the Bible.

“There is no certainty,” she says. “It’s interpretation.”

XXX churches

A few weeks after delivering his confessional sermon, Gyorke organized a Sunday event at his church intended to help keep congregants away from pornography.

He gave out study guides with scriptural verses related to lust and showed a slick video from XXXChurch, the main Web-based group for the Christian anti-porn movement.

The video opens with a mock-pharmaceutical infomercial for a product called “Lustivin.” It raves about how wonderful the drug can make you feel in the short term but then lists some major side effects: premature relational difficulty, divorce, shallow relationships.

Craig Gross, a young pastor from California, co-founded XXXChurch.com in 2001. Its URL was meant to snag people who were surfing the Web for dirty pictures.

“Ten years ago, when I wanted to bring the church up to date, everyone was like, ‘This won’t work. People will be confused about what you’re doing,’ ” Gross says.

“It was controversial at the time, but the church is always behind the times,” he says. “We should have had a XXXChurch.com in the late 1990s if we really wanted to get ahead of this problem.”

The site was slow to catch on for its first few years, but now gets millions of clicks a day from IP addresses around the globe, Gross said.

This year, XXXChurch sponsored Porn Sunday, a national anti-porn event that included hundreds of churches across the country screening a video starring Matt Hasselbeck, who's now quarterback for the Tennessee Titans, and other Christian NFL stars.

Soundbites from the players speak to the struggle between porn and faith.

“Sex is an awesome thing that God designed,” Hasselbeck says in the video.

Jon Kitna, a Dallas Cowboys quarterback, talks about surfing the Web and getting deeper into porn sites. “[You] see this [link] and it leads you to a link to this … ” he says. “And pretty soon, I’m into a world that I never really knew existed.”

For $7 a month, XXXChurch offers porn-detection software that fires off automatic e-mail alerts to a subscriber and his or her chosen “faith buddy,” a kind of whistle-blowing system designed to keep Christians from going astray.

Achieving “sobriety”

But some Christians have gone much further in their attempts to tackle porn addictions, literally rearranging their lives.

When Jeff Colon, a self-described recovering porn addict in Kentucky, confessed his addiction to his wife, she told him to get help or find a divorce attorney.

It was the early 1990s. Christian sex addition counseling was unheard of. But Colon’s pastor - to whom he’d also confided - called other church leaders and learned of a Christian counseling retreat called Pure Life Ministries, a kind of Christian compound that includes a chapel and all-male dormitory on 44 acres in western Kentucky.

Today, Colon is the president of Pure Life, which he credits with saving his marriage.

He says the program has cured thousands of men of their porn addictions through a six- to 12-month program of one-on-one or group therapy sessions.

The live-in program costs $175 a week. Men must move to the campus and live alone, with wives having the option of talking to Pure Life counselors by phone. Most insurance plans don’t cover Pure Life - a moot concern, really, because most program participants quit their jobs to relocate.

That’s what Colon, who was working as an elevator repairman, did. “I don’t regret it for a second,” he says. “It was a hard time not because I lost my job or had to move from my family. It was a tough time because I had nearly lost my connection with God. That is what’s most important in life.”

Pure Life’s curriculum relies heavily on Paul’s Letter to the Galatians, which stresses that if one lives “by the Spirit,” he will not “gratify the desires of the flesh.”

The scripture goes on to say that those who gratify the flesh “will not inherit the kingdom of God.” Women are not allowed on campus during the initial phase of treatment.

“People who don’t follow Christ aren’t going to get what I’m saying, but it was like intense Bible study that helped me understand how selfish I am as a sinner,” Colon says. “Basically, you have time to talk to God, and for him to show you the way to sobriety. And I’ve been sober for 17 years.”

For Colon, sobriety means abstaining from looking at porn, masturbating and performing any other sex act not involving his spouse.

“You learn that lust is just a state of mind,” he says. “If you lust for someone other than your wife, what you do is replace that lust with prayer. And you have a heart change.”

Indeed, Colon says that God was central to his recovery.

“I know secular people don’t get it,” he says. “But if I had a sponsor who was just another person, a person who is fallible, telling me to stay clean, it’s just not as powerful as God telling me that.”

“Women … drowning in this addiction”

Men aren’t the only ones who have started thinking that way about porn.

According to the creator of accountability2you, a Web-based service that dumps all the pornographic material someone surfs into his or her spouse’s e-mail inbox, roughly half of his 10,000 monthly subscribers are women.

“The Christian Church has started to realize that we’re sexual, too, and we are just as visually stimulated as men and we look at porn,” said Crystal Renaud, author of the recent book “Dirty Girls Come Clean,” a memoir about her own addiction to porn.

For the past year, the 26-year-old with punky-streaked hair has led Christian women’s porn addiction counseling sessions. Her Dirty Girls Ministries website has 450 members.

“I’ve met women who will lock themselves in a room and look at porn all day, ignoring their kids or their jobs,” she says. “I feel like I can relate because that’s all I cared about, getting my high. There are so many more women out there drowning in this addiction, you have no idea.”

Though there are few statistics to support Renaud’s claims about the extent of the problem, Christian media outlets like Today’s Christian Woman have recently run stories about women consuming porn, often theorizing that the habit starts with explicit romance novels.

Renaud has received a sexual addiction counseling certification from the American Association of Christian Counselors, though she is not licensed by secular organizations like the American Psychological Association. She promotes a five-step program she’s devised called SCARS - Surrender, Confessional, Accountability, Responsibility, Sharing - which encourages women to confess to each other about their desire to look at porn as a means of saying no to it.

In her memoir, Renaud writes about becoming a chronic masturbator and porn addict at age 10, after stumbling upon a dirty magazine in her brother’s room. It was a confusing, scary experience, she writes.

“My mother made it very clear what the parameters were when it came to sex, and there wasn’t a discussion beyond that,” Renaud said. She describes her relationship with her father as rocky, but wouldn’t elaborate.

In high school, Renaud was a leader in her Christian youth group, but she was also interested in porn. “I felt so bad and I wanted to stop looking at porn because that wasn’t what the Bible instructed,” she says, “and I knew God didn’t want me doing that.”

When she was 18, Renaud arranged to have sex for the first time at a hotel with a person she met in a Christian chat room. She says she went to the hotel but broke down in tears in her room and left before meeting the man.

“That was my rock bottom,” she says. “I remember being there and sobbing, thinking, ‘What am I doing risking my life to meet someone at a hotel I don’t even know?’”

Renaud said that she depends on God to keep her clean and that God is a kind of sponsor or monitor. When she wants to look at porn or masturbate, she and God have a kind of conversation, and the desire passes.

A crusade’s critics

The father of Christian-based porn and sex addiction therapy has a word for this “pray-away” method of sobriety.


Dr. Mark Laaser pioneered the Christian response to porn and sex addiction in the 1980s and chides counseling centers like Pure Life for what he says is their near-total reliance on prayer.

“Alcoholics don’t wish really hard to not be addicted to alcohol,” he says in a phone interview from his busy therapeutic practice in suburban Minneapolis. “The field of addiction is much deeper than opening your Bible.”

He’s pleased that more Christians are openly talking about pornography and sex addiction, but Laaser says he’s concerned that some Christian leaders and therapists are confusing sexual sin with sex addiction.

“Men come dragging into my office because their wives have caught them masturbating and labeled them addicts, or they’ve had one affair and they are now looking to have their affair excused by addiction,” he says.

“One affair doesn’t mean you’re a porn addict,” Laaser says. “Looking at porn occasionally doesn’t make you a porn addict. Those may be poor decisions, but they are not necessarily caused by clinical addiction.”

Porn is estimated to be a multibillion-dollar industry in America alone, banking at least 10 times what it did in 1970, the first time the U.S. government evaluated the retail value of the nation’s then-fledgling hardcore film, television and retail market.

During that same decade, Laaser had become the porn industry’s ideal customer. He was constantly on the hunt for it.
As a devout Christian, he spent a lot of energy trying to keep his porn a secret, especially from his wife, Debbie. His guilt distanced him from her emotionally, he says, and began eroding their relationship.

At the time, there was virtually no established psychological research, or mainstream therapy, for sex addiction. So Laaser reached out to secular 12-step programs, using Alcoholics Anonymous’ framework as a guide to reaching what he called sexual “sobriety,” abstaining from sex outside of marriage and avoiding masturbation.

“I remember thinking I wish my problem were drinking because I could get help easier,” Laaser said.

By the late ’80s, Laaser says, he was on the road to sobriety, combining therapeutic methods he’d learned while pursuing a doctorate in psychology from the University of Iowa and a divinity degree from Princeton Theological Seminary.

“It began to seem very evident to me that secular therapy does not work as effectively for Christians,” he said. “And that’s because the secular world … to us as Christians, seems less moral. Sex is everywhere in secular society - television, film, billboards. It’s just so much a part of life that it is excused.

“Christians just aren’t going to seek out a secular therapist - they won’t seek therapy at all if they don’t have some aspect of Christianity woven into their treatment.”

In 1992, Laaser authored the first book on Christian sexual addiction, titled “The Secret Sin.”

“The Christian church, both Protestant and Catholic, is experiencing tremendous turmoil in the area of sexuality,” it began. “The problem seems epidemic.”

It sold barely enough copies to stay in print.

In 2005, the publisher changed the title to “Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction,” and Laaser added chapters on Internet porn. It has sold 75,000 copies.

In Laaser’s care, a patient will undergo psychiatric evaluation, just as he would in the secular world. Laaser wants to know if the patient has any symptoms of depression, ADHD or anxiety. He says many sex addicts suffer from other mental health issues.

“You may need to go to a meeting every day, or connect with a sponsor; you may need to check in with this office once a day,” he said. “Every client is different, but we’re essentially helping them establish boundaries and restrictions.”

Some secular therapists have warmed to this kind of approach.

“The deeply religious were a group that were hard to reach years ago because they had extreme shame connected with their addiction,” says Tim Lee, a licensed social worker in New York with a specialty in sex and porn addiction treatment.

But Lee and Pennsylvania sex therapist Dr. John Giugliano, both members of the Society for Sexual Advancement - a national nonprofit think tank of licensed sex therapists - worry that therapy can become overly focused on dogma and ignore the patient’s real-life issues.

“If you spend your time in session talking about what God thinks and what the Bible says, you don’t get to understand what the patient thinks and what happened in their life up to that point that explains why,” Giugliano says.

Even within the world of Christian therapy, some counselors criticize the methods of other religious counselors.

Richard Blankenship, the Atlanta-based Christian therapist, studied under Laaser in the early 2000s. When Blankenship set up his practice in Atlanta to treat sex addicts, he used the same name as Laaser’s ministry, “Faithful and True,” adding only the word “Atlanta.”

But Laaser wants to make it clear that he has no association with Blankenship’s practice and doesn’t agree with some aspects of Blankenship’s program.

Blankenship doesn’t rely enough on psychological expertise, Laaser says. Laaser objects to a therapist telling a patient that an addiction may be patterns repeated through generations, as Blankenship does. And Laaser disagrees with Blankenship’s habit of connecting a patient’s addiction to a biblical character’s family tree.

Abraham’s family tree

For the rest of his therapy session at Faithful and True, Michael circles emotions from a list that Richardson and Blankenship have provided. He circles “anxious” and then describes a fight he had with his wife about his infidelity.

Blankenship responds to Michael’s description of the fight by saying that addiction is generational, mentioning the Kennedys and the Fondas.

Then Blankenship queues up a PowerPoint presentation on a laptop, showing Michael a family tree he has designed around the biblical story of Abraham.

It has a lot of boxes. There are several pages.

Abraham, Blankenship says, was a guy who committed some sexual transgressions, like fathering a child with Hagar while his wife was barren. Ultimately, God forgave him.

Michael starts talking about his own family. He describes a difficult upbringing with a father whom he said was philandering and verbally abusive. He says sex wasn’t talked about at his house when he was growing up.

Before the session ends, Michael is assured that there’s no reason to think that he won’t kick his addiction. He’ll be on a new path, Blankenship says, toward “sexual integrity.”

The 90-minute session comes to a close with a prayer.

Blankenship and his co-counselor Mark Richardson lower their heads.

Richardson asks that God look after Michael. He asks God to bless this therapy process. Michael is heading out into the world, he says, heading back into a culture of temptation and lust and ungodly ways.

Look after him, the therapist says, keep him on the right path.

- CNN Belief Blog Co-Editor

Filed under: Christianity • Church • Sex

soundoff (3,536 Responses)
  1. Insight

    If the pastors and the preists stop practising it.

    September 29, 2011 at 4:02 pm |
  2. Reality


    September 29, 2011 at 7:29 am |
  3. John

    "religion addict" Because a guy, or girl, enjoys the sight
    of the opposite s-e-x (or same s-e-x for that matter) they are
    an "addict"??? Can say same about "religion nuts" or
    "religion addicts". Hey, you "religion addicts" used the
    term first, how do you like it being used to label you?

    You anti-healthy-s-e-x "religion addicts" better understand
    one thing, the most s-e-xually repressive countries are
    PROVEN to be the most crime filled and violent countries.
    So "religion addicts" backwards and unhealthy view of
    healthy s-e-x is exactly what will make anyplace they shove
    their view down others throats a worse place to visit or live.

    Also, you herd-flockers, who's minds have been infected by
    something far worse than anything like AIDS, Ebola,
    or Hantavirus, but with a bad Meme (mind virus), remember
    where you are on the totem pole. You are herd, or flock,
    bottom of totem pole, being played for a patsy by those that
    run the church business. To more easily get your money and
    devotion, they have to pit you against an "enemy", an enemy
    who they will make up from their imagination so they can
    put you into an "us against them" situation. A ploy as old as
    the hills to political as well as church leaders. Satan was the
    enemy last week, this week it is p-o-r-n, next week, Gumby.

    You flockers should do the world a favor and try thinking for
    yourselves for a change, and not for some (possible p-e-d-o-phile)
    who stands on a podium above you and tells you what to think.
    Go have some of the best natural, healthy exercise in the world,
    S-e-x, i-n-t-e-rcourse, m-a-s-t-u-rbation, p-o-r-n, it's all GOOD. But NOT
    with children.

    September 28, 2011 at 11:21 pm |
  4. John


    September 28, 2011 at 11:18 pm |
  5. Hoovervilles

    The t-i-tle of the article "Can the Christian Crusade against p-o-r-n-o-graphy bear fruit?"

    Looking to the Bible for guidance,

    1. Lott (the righteous) offers his two v-i-r-g-i-n daughters to the unruly crowd to
    19:9 Behold now, I have two daughters which have not known man; let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes: only unto these men do nothing; for therefore came they under the shadow of my roof.

    2. Both Lott’s daughters “know” their father. The fathers daughters bear the fathers grand daughters.
    19:31 And the firstborn said unto the younger, Our father is old, and there is not a man in the earth to come in unto us after the manner of all the earth:
    Come, let us make our father drink wine, and we will lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father.
    19:33 And they made their father drink wine that night: and the firstborn went in, and lay with her father; and he perceived not when she lay down, nor when she arose.
    19:34 And it came to pass on the morrow, that the firstborn said unto the younger, Behold, I lay yesternight with my father: let us make him drink wine this night also; and go thou in, and lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father.
    And they made their father drink wine that night also: and the younger arose, and lay with him; and he perceived not when she lay down, nor when she arose.
    19:36 Thus were both the daughters of Lot with child by their father.

    3. The Bible’s punishment for r-a-p-e.
    22:28 If a man find a damsel that is a v-i-r-g-i-n, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
    22:29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

    BTW: This is a very small selection where one can get guidance from the Bible about p-o-r-n-o-graphy.

    September 28, 2011 at 10:50 pm |
    • Hoovervilles



      1. Lott (the righteous) offers his two v-i-r-g-i-n daughters to the unruly crowd to "do to them as is good in your eyes."
      19:9 Behold now, I have two daughters which have not known man; let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes: only unto these men do nothing; for therefore came they under the shadow of my roof.

      September 28, 2011 at 10:54 pm |
    • Hoovervilles

      Genesis 19:8

      September 28, 2011 at 10:57 pm |
  6. Miss Demeanor

    Could the last name of the man named in the article, Colon, have something to do with his problem?

    September 28, 2011 at 8:02 pm |
    • reader1

      oh...is that supposed to be a joke?

      September 28, 2011 at 9:10 pm |
  7. Dharma Reflecting Pool

    The religious right in this country is just dogma psychosis.

    September 28, 2011 at 4:05 pm |
    • Reflecting Pool Continued

      Christ was a staunch anti-dogmatist. That is because he realized that religion manifesting as dogma is as dangerous as fertilizer manifesting as an IED.

      September 28, 2011 at 4:07 pm |
    • Epilogue

      IC – no doubt this will get posted – no problem

      September 28, 2011 at 5:08 pm |
  8. Dharma Reflecting Pool

    "IC" and nonsense gibberish is all this site will post.

    September 28, 2011 at 4:03 pm |
  9. Dogma Hurts


    September 28, 2011 at 3:21 pm |
    • Dogma Hurts

      apparently if you say anything more than "ic" it won't get posted.

      September 28, 2011 at 3:34 pm |
  10. maryConseca


    September 28, 2011 at 3:06 pm |
    • Dogma Hurts

      Sounds like you have the same problem – anything more than a nonsense nano-second sound-byte doesn't get posted.

      September 28, 2011 at 3:36 pm |
  11. realitybites

    Charles, what would be the problem w/ Muslim believing in Mohammed and wanting to enact Sharia law, Hmm?

    Instead of creating so many complicated laws why not have a state supporte legal system that systematically buns witches at the steak, tortures and executes blasphemers, and publically shuns atheists or worse? Hmm?

    I said, Instead of creating so many complicated laws why not have a state supporte legal system that systematically buns witches at the steak, tortures and executes blasphemers, and publically shuns atheists or worse? Hmm?

    Who's laws? Those concocted by by rabid helfire and briimstone tent revivaliist zealots or ones created by Christians who believe in compassion and forgiveness for the less fortunate who believe in Christ's tenants of humility and love? (Democratice virtues). Think about it and get back to me. Or maybe just THINK. God gave you a brain, stop being a lost desparate gullible lamb and use what God gave you during this short time you have here.

    September 28, 2011 at 2:27 pm |
    • Miss Demeanor

      If the majority of the population wanted Sharia law, they would have a right to go through the steps that would allow it. In 200 years there's no telling what the US population will look like.

      September 28, 2011 at 8:09 pm |
    • Miss Demeanor

      mmmm. . . .all this talk of steak and buns is makin me hungry . . .

      September 30, 2011 at 8:43 pm |
  12. Chibbers

    It's called making a point. Those offended do not represent every Christian, and the gist behind the photograph worked; you read the article or at least paid attention. Personally, in my experience, I've met many a Christian men and woman who carried their bibles with them everywhere, preached to everyone and thier brother, only to be some of the creepiest, perverse people I've ever met. So there be some truth in that photograph.

    September 28, 2011 at 1:59 pm |
    • realitybites

      Agreed, never trust a "Christian" who goes around bragging about how Holy they are. They're most likely overcompensating for something. Marcus Bachman, perhaps?

      September 28, 2011 at 2:29 pm |
  13. popseal

    Human nature is in deep trouble and it'll take a bit more than behavior modification to fix it. A profound spiritual regeneration (new birth) is the first step in gaining self control and the life of freedom that accompanies it. A good pastor and a financially accountable church fellowship is God's designed 'support group'.

    September 28, 2011 at 1:17 pm |
    • JeremyJK

      Amen to that!

      September 28, 2011 at 1:22 pm |
  14. p gibson

    "The song of Soloman" – ex Bible – is pretty racy. methinks you ought to start there.


    do ANY of your ilk really READ the bible ? Or do you just hold a copy to be seen in 2-D with?

    September 28, 2011 at 1:13 pm |
  15. JeremyJK

    Great Pic! It illustrates exactly what is going on in the Church today. There are many christians hiding behind a spiritual front and all the while suffering with this horrible sin. Hiding will not help.

    September 28, 2011 at 12:16 pm |
  16. Aleta413

    Everyone quiet while I telepathically contact my imaginary friend for advice on this matter.

    September 28, 2011 at 11:27 am |
    • JeremyJK

      If you don't believe in God than why do you bother people that do. Seems kind of childish.

      September 28, 2011 at 12:06 pm |
    • redragon

      Jeremy... If you saw someone on the street trying to set themselves on fire would you try to get help for them? Non theists see crazy people hurting themselves with the false belief in god. He's trying to help you.

      September 28, 2011 at 12:36 pm |
    • JeremyJK


      and i see atheist as virtually setting themselves on fire by rejecting Jesus Christ. So I try to help too.

      September 28, 2011 at 1:21 pm |
    • Miss Demeanor

      RE: "If you don't believe in God than why do you bother people that do. Seems kind of childish."
      Maybe because so many fundametalist zealots try whatever they can to force their beliefs on others? EG: Ridiculing science and forcing creationism on school children by calling it 'intelligent design'. Or Westboro Baptist morons intruding on funeral services to proclaim their bizarre interpretaion of the bible. Need more?

      September 28, 2011 at 8:16 pm |
  17. jordan

    this picture should be erase its disrespectfull and CNN should be sued for this !!!!!!!!!!!
    how come they respect other things more that the HOLY BOOK !!!!!!!!
    This book is everything for many christians like me and we are not perfect so as you that u are reading this comment !
    Am a teenager and am a strong beliver that God exist and that He saves souls and that He forgives !!!

    September 28, 2011 at 10:00 am |
    • Aleta413

      How dare they disrespect Playboy, disgrace!

      September 28, 2011 at 11:15 am |
  18. Seth

    No masturbation? No wonder these people are so bitter, hypocritical, and uptight. They need to rub one out once in a while.

    September 28, 2011 at 9:34 am |
  19. charles

    What's wrong with believing in Christ and following His teachings? Nothing.

    What's wrong with creating laws based on biblical scripture? Nothing

    Rather than create so many complicated laws why not just accept God's law? Could you repeat the question.

    Rather than create so many complicated laws why not just accept God's law? What to you mean?

    September 28, 2011 at 3:02 am |
    • Jade

      Making laws based off of one religion's text is what this country fled from.

      America stood for religious freedom not the freedom to be Christian.

      Why should an American Hindu or Muslim be forced to follow laws taken from the text of someone else's religion?

      September 28, 2011 at 9:12 am |
    • redragon

      that commandment about not boiling a goat in it's mothers milk...let's get that on the books right now!

      September 28, 2011 at 12:38 pm |
  20. rick

    Good article. Wish the photographer had left the bible out of the picture. Mix the holy bible up with playboy. How juvenile and irresponsible of CNN. Shows how Christians are under attack here.

    September 27, 2011 at 3:15 pm |
    • hendeeze

      yes the cover of playboy is more compelling then that useless book of lies

      September 28, 2011 at 12:19 am |
    • William

      How dare him soil the holy book with that magazine. Hand that magazine over to me right now!

      September 28, 2011 at 7:20 am |
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