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October 16th, 2013
03:20 PM ET

What Oprah gets wrong about atheism


Opinion by Chris Stedman, special to CNN
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(CNN) - To some, Oprah Winfrey appears to have an almost godlike status. Her talents are well recognized, and her endorsement can turn almost any product into an overnight bestseller.

This godlike perception is fitting, since in recent years Winfrey’s work has increasingly emphasized spirituality, including programs like her own "Super Soul Sunday."

But what happens when an atheist enters the mix?

A few days ago Winfrey interviewed long-distance swimmer Diana Nyad on Super Soul Sunday. Nyad identified herself as an atheist who experiences awe and wonder at the natural world and humanity.

Nyad, 64, who swam from Cuba to Key West last month, said “I can stand at the beach’s edge with the most devout Christian, Jew, Buddhist, go on down the line, and weep with the beauty of this universe and be moved by all of humanity — all the billions of people who have lived before us, who have loved and hurt.”

Winfrey responded, “Well I don’t call you an atheist then.”

Winfrey went on, “I think if you believe in the awe and the wonder and the mystery then that is what God is… It’s not a bearded guy in the sky.”

Nyad clarified that she doesn’t use the word God because it implies a “presence… a creator or an overseer.”

Winfrey’s response may have been well intended, but it erased Nyad’s atheist identity and suggested something entirely untrue and, to many atheists like me, offensive: that atheists don’t experience awe and wonder.

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The exchange between Winfrey and Nyad reminds me of a conversation I once had with a Catholic scholar.

The professor once asked me: “When I talk about God, I mean love and justice and reconciliation, not a man in the sky. You talk about love and justice and reconciliation. Why can’t you just call that God?”

I replied: “Why must you call that God? Why not just call it what it is: love and justice and reconciliation?”

Though we started off with this disagreement, we came to better understand one another’s points of view through patient, honest dialogue.

Conversations like that are greatly needed today, as atheists are broadly misunderstood.

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When I visit college and university campuses around the United States, I frequently ask students what words are commonly associated with atheists. Their responses nearly always include words like “negative,” “selfish,” “nihilistic” and “closed-minded.”

When I ask how many of them actually have a relationship with an atheist, few raise their hands.

Relationships can be transformative. The Pew Research Center found that among the 14% of Americans who changed their mind from opposing same-sex marriage to supporting it in the last decade, the top reason given was having “friends, family, acquaintances who are gay/lesbian.”

Knowing someone of a different identity can increase understanding. This has been true for me as a queer person and as an atheist. I have met people who initially think I can’t actually be an atheist when they learn that I experience awe and am committed to service and social justice.

But when I explain that atheism is central to my worldview — that I am in awe of the natural world and that I believe it is up to human beings, instead of a divine force, to strive to address our problems — they often better understand my views, even if we don’t agree.

While theists can learn by listening to atheists more, atheists themselves can foster greater understanding by not just emphasizing the “no” of atheism — our disagreement over the existence of any gods — but also the “yes” of atheism and secular humanism, which recognizes the amazing potential within human beings.

Carl Sagan, the agnostic astronomer and author, would have agreed with Nyad’s claim that you can be an atheist, agnostic or nonreligious person and consider yourself “spiritual.”

As Sagan wrote in "The Demon-Haunted World,":

"When we recognize our place in an immensity of light‐years and in the passage of ages, when we grasp the intricacy, beauty and subtlety of life, then that soaring feeling, that sense of elation and humility combined, is surely spiritual.”

Nyad told Winfrey that she feels a similar sense of awe:

“I think you can be an atheist who doesn’t believe in an overarching being who created all of this and sees over it,” she said. “But there’s spirituality because we human beings, and we animals, and maybe even we plants, but certainly the ocean and the moon and the stars, we all live with something that is cherished and we feel the treasure of it.”

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I experience that same awe when I see people of different beliefs coming together across lines of religious difference to recognize that we are all human — that we all love and hurt.

Perhaps Winfrey, who could use her influence to shatter stereotypes about atheists rather than reinforce them, would have benefited from listening to Nyad just a bit more closely and from talking to more atheists about awe and wonder.

I know many who would be up to the task.

Chris Stedman is the assistant humanist chaplain at Harvard University, coordinator of humanist life for the Yale Humanist Community and author of Faitheist: How an Atheist Found Common Ground with the Religious

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  1. Johnny Smooth

    "Why would matter come into existence all by itself for no good reason?"

    Some things are just brute facts that have no explanation. It might be just a simple brute fact that matter came into existence for no good reason. However, it is also possible that matter always existed. Certain outcomes of Einstein's relativistic physics suggest that the past is not gone and the future already exists. In that case, what would give us the illusion that things come into being is that we can only see one "time-slice" at a time. Google "Brian Greene illusion of time" for more about that. "The Illusion of Time" is an episode of physicist Brian Greene's "Fabric of the Cosmos" series.

    "Why would stupid, inorganic atoms combine themselves to form DNA molecules?"

    We have examples of various "stupid" systems that result in complexity. The Mandelbrot set is one such system. Mandelbrot set images are produced by taking a simple equation, plugging in a number and then taking the result and plugging it back into the simple equationt- and then taking...so on and so forth. By this simple, dumb process, apparently infinitely complex designs result. Google "Mandelbrot zoom" for videos that illustrate the immense complexity of design that simple, dumb processes can produce.

    October 18, 2013 at 1:14 pm |
    • Tom, Tom, the Other One

      That would be like one of McTaggart's B-theories of time. I've wondered what "possible" means in a B-theory. I'd suggest that something is possible if and only it occurs.

      October 18, 2013 at 1:36 pm |
      • Tom, Tom, the Other One

        if and only if it occurs

        October 18, 2013 at 1:38 pm |
      • Johnny Smooth

        As far as I am aware, there are 2 possible meanings in saying that something is possible. There is actual possibility- which you are talking about and which I am talking about in this sentence about "2 possible meanings," and then there is also theoretical possibility- which I thought it was obvious that I was talking about with respect to my comments on a /theory/ of time. Anyway, it looks to me that there is some pretty good evidence for B-theory in Brian Geene's "The illusion of Time" video, but I'm no expert on the subject so it is possible (a quiz- which "possible" do I mean just there- actual or theoretical possibility?) that he is wrong somewhere in what he says, but I just don't have the knowledge refute what he says.

        October 18, 2013 at 5:29 pm |
        • Tom, Tom, the Other One

          Is there a difference, Johnny Smooth? The future, on a simple B-theory of time, is as real as the present. The outcome of an event occuring in the present is already real. It is the possible outcome. (Quantum B-theories anyone?). If you had another outcome in mind, theoretical perhaps, it is not the possible outcome.

          Another thing: it is theoretically possible for a tossed coin to come up heads or tails, you might say. But what can that mean? There are no abstractions in reality. There is no outcome until you toss a coin. Then, on that one occasion, there is only one possible outcome. Any other occasion of a coin toss is an entirely different event, not to be related in any way that is true to any other coin toss.

          October 18, 2013 at 6:59 pm |
        • Johnny Smooth

          Tom, Tom,

          Yes there is a difference. Actual possibility is how things actually are or will be, while theoretical possibility is how people (who don't propose to absolutely know the actual case of what is or what will be) talk about what, to the best of their limited knowledge, is or will be. So, it is actually possible for people to use the word "possible" to refer to the concepts of actual possibility or theoretical possibility. I just proved that since I did both of those things in a previous post. If B-theory is the actual case, it doesn't change the fact that we don't absolutely know what future actually exists right now and so we can really only theorize (propose theoretical possibilities) about the actually possible future.

          October 18, 2013 at 8:15 pm |
    • scientist/believer

      So you are saying that you don't believe in the proven Laws of Thermodynamics, Entropy, or Conservation of Mass and Energy?? You are throwing out the most proven and fundamental laws of science to head off into the direction of pure conjecture? How do you simply discard proven science in exchange for a TV series!?!?!?? Also, your 'mindless math' example could not be possible if the laws of mathematics were not firm... believers in God understand that He created all natural laws as well as spiritual laws... so we expect math to generate patterns. You did not answer HOW random collisions of atoms could form into DNA. DNA is exactly analogous to computer coding, but instead of a binary code, it is a quaternary code. Randomness can't create genetic coding, because all information requires intelligence.

      October 18, 2013 at 2:29 pm |
      • niknak

        I really hope any science that you do has nothing to do with healthcare, aircraft design, or anything else that might hurt people if done incorrectly.

        If you are a scientist, then how can you not apply the same standards of the empirical process to your sky fairy hypothesis?
        If you did, and you don't come back with it being anything other than unproven, then you are not a scientist.

        October 18, 2013 at 2:36 pm |
        • scientist/believer

          Just another atheist with sticks and stones to throw... but beyond insults I hear nothing intelligent from you.

          October 18, 2013 at 2:51 pm |
        • niknak

          Lets just cut to the chase then anti-scientist.
          You provide some verifiable independent proof of your god, and we non believers will start to believe.
          Absence that, you have nothing but an unproven hypothesis that is meaningless.

          October 18, 2013 at 3:06 pm |
      • Tom, Tom, the Other One

        "All information requires intelligence" – a strange generalization I wouldn't expect from a scientist.

        October 18, 2013 at 3:11 pm |
        • niknak

          I am beginning to think he believes that because he grew up a Christian Scientist, that means he is in fact an actual scientist.

          October 18, 2013 at 3:15 pm |
      • Johnny Smooth

        I'm not sure what I said to lead you to believe that I am "throwing out the most proven and fundamental laws of science" since I'm pretty sure that none of the laws that you mention describe a need for the past to be gone and the future to not exist yet, and I was only forwarding a theoretical possibility with apparently good evidence as far as I can tell to address the question "Why would matter come into existence all by itself for no good reason?" The question assumes that matter came into existence and didn't always exist when that is not the only theoretical possibility.

        My confusion about why you'd accuse me of throwing out proven science aside, your attack on TV series as not likely having accurate information is equally baffling to me. The TV series is based on a book written by respected physicist Brian Greene (there can't be any accurate information in a TV series inspired by a book written by a respected physicist either, I guess?). So, your innuendo above that TV series aren't likely to be a good source of information is only attacking a source of information rather than dealing with actual information directly.

        My mention of the Mandelbrot set was to show by analogy that all that is needed for design to happen is some very simple set of laws of physics rather than designs needing an intelligent, intentional designer to give specific care to sculpt things as individual items like a person molding a figure out of clay (as the Bible describes the creation of Adam). That you believe that a god created the laws of physics is a belief that isn't well supported by any demonstrable facts that I'm aware of. So, please go into some detail as to why you believe that.

        Also, I never proposed that randomness created anything (I only argued that some simple set of laws of physics are all that need be behind the designs of nature that we observe), so I don't know why you are going on about randomness in your last few sentences.

        October 18, 2013 at 7:18 pm |
  2. bananas

    God reigns girls.

    October 18, 2013 at 12:45 pm |
    • Well

      according to Catholics, Southern Baptists, and other whacko boys' clubs in disguise.

      October 18, 2013 at 1:19 pm |

    • God reins girls. Hi-ho Silver!

      October 18, 2013 at 1:40 pm |
    • Max

      Speaking of 'banana"s garbage:

      Karie called Bible Clown a “disgusting, deviant perverted virus,” and a “Bozo,” before ending with this prediction:

      “Hell is coming for you love. Special dungeon just for u and u won’t be able to die. LOL.LOL.”

      Her various troll names:
      bananas
      bo
      ploj
      pas
      dodo murdock
      lulu
      bootyfunk (stolen)
      slappy
      love
      tt
      point being
      louie
      cherrie
      prophet
      Dr E
      kati
      sam tone
      blessed
      Meredith S. (Stolen from a 9/11 widow!!
      doodoo
      bingo
      wary
      alaqeada
      sam stone (stolen)
      al
      observer
      sammy
      karie
      bethany
      barry
      blake
      faith
      hharri
      charlie
      terry
      mary
      yudhisthira mahabharata jr
      eddie
      tex
      dewie
      Pharisee DM
      DODO

      October 18, 2013 at 1:44 pm |
      • niknak

        If she believes in some magic man in the sky AND has time to go thru all that trouble making up those weird screen names, then I hope I never have the misfortune of ever meeting her. She is really creepy.

        October 18, 2013 at 2:38 pm |
  3. bananas

    DM, what do u do all day?

    October 18, 2013 at 12:36 pm |
    • bananas

      Besides troll? And hack?

      October 18, 2013 at 12:37 pm |
    • Max

      What 'bananas' does all day and night:

      'Karie called Bible Clown a “disgusting, deviant perverted virus,” and a “Bozo,” before ending with this prediction:

      “Hell is coming for you love. Special dungeon just for u and u won’t be able to die. LOL.LOL.” '

      Her various troll names:
      bananas
      bo
      ploj
      pas
      dodo murdock
      lulu
      bootyfunk (stolen)
      slappy
      love
      tt
      point being
      louie
      cherrie
      prophet
      Dr E
      kati
      sam tone
      blessed
      Meredith S. (Stolen from a 9/11 widow!!
      doodoo
      bingo
      wary
      alaqeada
      sam stone (stolen)
      al
      observer
      sammy
      karie
      bethany
      barry
      blake
      faith
      hharri
      charlie
      terry
      mary
      yudhisthira mahabharata jr
      eddie
      tex
      dewie
      Pharisee DM
      DODO

      Pot, meet kettle. Hypocrite.

      October 18, 2013 at 1:23 pm |
  4. bananas

    Where is that grossestbof all sthies, god herself, DM MUrdock? She is the only topic athies fear

    October 18, 2013 at 12:35 pm |
  5. Opera

    What Oprah gets wrong about atheism?

    –Atheists cannot sense awe and wonder

    What Oprah is in awe of in an atheist?

    –Their 'spirituality'

    October 18, 2013 at 12:34 pm |
    • Opera

      spir·i·tu·al·i·ty
      noun \ˌspir-i-chə-ˈwa-lə-tē\

      : the quality or state of being concerned with religion or religious matters : the quality or state of being spiritual

      So, how can an atheist be spiritual?

      October 18, 2013 at 12:36 pm |
      • I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

        Another definition is 'relating to or affecting the human spirit or soul as opposed to material or physical things.'

        I don't think an atheist can really be 'spiritual' as such, but this definition connotes a relation to human consciousness and subjective conscious experience.

        October 18, 2013 at 12:39 pm |
      • Sara

        You didn't list a source for that definition so I can't really comment, but the OED lists definitions by usuage. Here are the definitions for spiritual in the American English version:

        1of, relating to, or affecting the human spirit or soul as opposed to material or physical things:
        I’m responsible for his spiritual welfare
        the spiritual values of life
        (of a person) not concerned with material values or pursuits.
        2of or relating to religion or religious belief:
        the tribe’s spiritual leader

        Human spirit is a fairly secular term often used to refer to human drives or passions and even "soul" doesn't imply a god, though it may (in some contexts) something that can exist apart from living material.

        October 18, 2013 at 12:58 pm |
      • zampaz

        Pardon me Opera, but spiritual and spirituality are two different words.
        May I refer you to the wikipedia page on spirituality?

        October 18, 2013 at 3:55 pm |
    • Alto

      Chris Stedman has his heart in the right place when he says, he will work for social justice, reconciliation and love. Hope that one day he will be the love of God surrounding him.
      However, the term spirituality has a deeper meaning, referencing the soul and the super natural. Just like he references a conversation he had, about God as follows:
      “When I talk about God, I mean love and justice and reconciliation, not a man in the sky. You talk about love and justice and reconciliation. Why can’t you just call that God?”

      I replied: “Why must you call that God? Why not just call it what it is: love and justice and reconciliation?”

      Same goes with spirituality, why must you call it spirituality?
      God and spirituality go together.

      October 18, 2013 at 1:14 pm |
      • Sara

        There are three issues here. First, for many, including those in the mental health professions, spirituality refers to issues of the "human spirit". This is a term used to describe issue of meaning, belonging and drive in humans and has nothing at all to do with supernatural spirits. The Keep in mind this same term has evolved to refer to alcohol, so it has many meanings.

        Secondly, even if you want to describe a particular spirituality as refering to something beyond the material brain it may or may not be supernatural. Many people believe that consciousness pervades matter, or that all is mental in substance or that other organizations of matter larger than humans may have something resembling consciousness. None of these is necessarily "supernatural" insofar as several conceptions are quite compatible with modern findings in physics and biology.

        Third, even if the "spiritual" belief system were supernatural, it wouldn't relate to god beliefs in any particular way. Atheism is just a belief position on gods, and atheist could, theoretically, believe in all manner of supernatural things, like crystals, libertarian free will, or qi.

        October 18, 2013 at 1:26 pm |
        • zampaz

          Well said Sara. Spirit: the inner quality or nature of a person. Spiritual: of or relating to a persons spirit –>spiritual: of or relating to the inner quality or nature of a person (defs from M-W online).

          October 18, 2013 at 1:42 pm |
        • Sara

          zampaz, yeah, exactly. I'm not actually crazy about the word spiritual myself, but I don't think its incorrect.

          October 18, 2013 at 1:44 pm |
        • zampaz

          "Spiritual" is an easy word to use to convey the human emotional experience of "awe, wonder and perhaps a sense of connectedness or humility." and I don't know a single word to replace it but I spent a little time checking online thesaurus for synonyms. Perhaps someone can help? According to wikipedia spirituality lacks a definitive definition...but the Etymology found there is interesting.

          October 18, 2013 at 1:58 pm |
        • Sara

          I spent some time yesterday looking for an alternative, too, and didn't find one.

          Hmm...etymology.com gives the following. Yeah, interesting:

          spirit (n.)
          mid-13c., "animating or vital principle in man and animals," from Old French espirit, from Latin spiritus "soul, courage, vigor, breath," related to spirare "to breathe," from PIE *(s)peis- "to blow" (cf. Old Church Slavonic pisto "to play on the flute").

          Original usage in English mainly from passages in Vulgate, where the Latin word translates Greek pneuma and Hebrew ruah. Distinction between "soul" and "spirit" (as "seat of emotions") became current in Christian terminology (e.g. Greek psykhe vs. pneuma, Latin anima vs. spiritus) but "is without significance for earlier periods" [Buck]. Latin spiritus, usually in classical Latin "breath," replaces animus in the sense "spirit" in the imperial period and appears in Christian writings as the usual equivalent of Greek pneuma.

          Meaning "supernatural being" is attested from c.1300 (see ghost); that of "essential principle of something" (in a non-theological sense, e.g. Spirit of St. Louis) is attested from 1690, common after 1800. Plural form spirits "volatile substance" is an alchemical idea, first attested 1610; sense narrowed to "strong alcoholic liquor" by 1670s. This also is the sense in spirit level (1768).

          October 18, 2013 at 2:03 pm |
        • Sara

          It seems like saying "I'm spiritual" means "I'm interested in the place and relations of humans in the universe". This could mean all sorts of things, but implies an interest in both ontological and ethical realities surrounding the individual, society and sentience in general. I may come to terms with the word at some point, but I'm not happy using it for myself even though I meet those criteria. Perhaps, because like "atheist" it is a term claimed by a large group of people who also hold ideas I don't agree with.

          October 18, 2013 at 2:09 pm |
        • zampaz

          har har har...I've run into a few "fundamentalist" atheists; "Ve must have a Doctrine, Ya?"
          "Yeah, whatever, go herd some cats."

          October 18, 2013 at 4:02 pm |
    • Chris T

      To Chris Stedman:

      Some good points in your article, hope that some day you will come to feel the love of God and know Christ.

      October 18, 2013 at 2:08 pm |
      • Cam

        And may I also express our hope that you some day come to see reason?

        October 18, 2013 at 3:21 pm |
      • zampaz

        "Love one another, because all that we hold precious as humanity is in our fellows.
        Cherish all life for it is unique and fleeting.
        Ease suffering and comfort others. Because you can."
        -Anon

        October 18, 2013 at 4:12 pm |
  6. bananas

    Alqaeda fooled em all

    October 18, 2013 at 12:33 pm |
  7. bananas

    For some reason they think they are funny when they try humor. They r hysterical when they don't mean to be

    October 18, 2013 at 12:32 pm |
    • Roger hat

      I suggest you end the crack use. Maybe switch to LL's weed.

      October 18, 2013 at 12:36 pm |
  8. bananas

    The snake can't wait for prison

    October 18, 2013 at 12:30 pm |
  9. bananas

    Atjies are responsible for almost all evil in the world

    October 18, 2013 at 12:29 pm |
  10. bananas

    Talk to us murdie.

    October 18, 2013 at 12:28 pm |
  11. bananas

    I rejected no-god at 5 and the no-godders have never forgiven me. I have converted thousands to Christ based on my revolting experiences as an athie

    October 18, 2013 at 12:24 pm |
    • ?

      Your vast experiences as an "athie" prior to age 5?! LOLOLOL

      October 18, 2013 at 12:26 pm |
      • bananas

        Minimise child abuse. Typical

        October 18, 2013 at 12:41 pm |
  12. Toney

    Well Finally something Christians and Atheists can Agree on. Oprah is nuts.

    October 18, 2013 at 12:23 pm |
    • Yep

      Yep

      October 18, 2013 at 3:29 pm |
  13. bananas

    Let us discuss that boob, DM Murdock, the laughing stock of all things atheist

    October 18, 2013 at 12:21 pm |
    • Let's not

      and say you did hundreds of times already, your trollness

      October 18, 2013 at 1:23 pm |
  14. TYRANNASAUR

    Their responses nearly always include words like “negative,” “selfish,” “nihilistic” and “closed-minded.”........

    Most true...they almost think you're EVIL if you don't believe in a god....as an atheist I scare many people and they really don't like to get too close to me since I'm knowledgeable and well educated and ALWAYS LAUGHING AND HAPPY....it scares them ...specially when I tell them I gave god up when I was 8 years old and therefore never bought into the GUILT,SHAME AND FEAR RELIGIONS instill in people so as to control them since they"re told by their religious leaders the only way out of their misery and getting to HEAVEN is through them...WHAT SCAMMMERS.

    October 18, 2013 at 12:19 pm |
    • I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

      To be fair, we're not all like that. I know atheists who are miserable b@stards and/or retardedly stupid, just as I know religious people who are happy and/or intelligent.

      October 18, 2013 at 12:22 pm |
      • BTW

        TYRANNASAUR, bananas, LOL???, etc, is same person talking to themselves.

        October 18, 2013 at 12:33 pm |
        • I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

          Duly noted.

          October 18, 2013 at 12:36 pm |
    • bananas

      U tell em murdie.

      October 18, 2013 at 12:22 pm |
    • Mathews

      Let me explain why religious people think Atheists are evil:

      Satan, for eons, has challenged and promised God that he will take away all God's creation away from God. This is Satan's nature. Satan has been doing this since the beginning of creation. Satan is not a two horned, spikey tailed monster – infact he is the most handsome creature – an ex-angel who challenged God's authority.

      Satan has been at work in using human logic and human understanding of basic science for eons to convince humans one way or another that God does not exist. Satan does not want any followers of his own. Satan just wants people to stop believing in God. One of these tricks is to tell people "I dont need God to be good". Of course one can be good.

      But – to come to the original point – Religious people think Atheists are people who have been subtly convinced by the devil to believe in themselves more than believing in God and hence have lost their souls to eternal damnation.

      It does not matter what or how well we live here on earth. What matters is where does one's soul go after death. Yes – the atheist will tell you this is stupid mumbo-jumbo and we will just be dead when we are dead – but thats what Satan wants to convince you.

      October 18, 2013 at 12:56 pm |
      • I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

        Satan fight's against Yahweh's tyranny. I'd much prefer to be on Satan's side than the tyrant's side.

        October 18, 2013 at 1:03 pm |
        • KGuldin

          If you made or built something, isn't it yours?

          October 18, 2013 at 2:04 pm |
        • Lisa

          There's a bridge, and there is a little kid standing beside it claiming to be an agent for the owner of the bridge. He asks you for a lot of money to cross the bridge. There aren't any signs or anything else to suggest that this isn't just an ordinary bridge free for public crossing. Do you automatically just trust him and pay up, or do you ask for proof that he is what he says he is?

          October 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm |
        • KGuldin

          Lisa, your analogy doesn't really fit. My intention wasn't about ownership. ISD didn't answer, so I didn't get to get into it, but my point was that God is not a tyrant. Heaven is His by right of creation. Of course you don't believe that. Fine, I get it. You have a right to rule your own house as you see fit. So does God. That doesn't make Him a tyrant. Nor you. Mathews was trying to open up a dialogue and explain some things and offer a perspective. Even if it's not logical or evidence. He didn't attack. He was trying to explain. If it doesn't make sense to you, fine. But he didn't attack.

          October 18, 2013 at 4:02 pm |
        • Lisa

          No, religious authorities claim that there's a heaven and that God created it. They also claim that there is only one way across life, and that everyone must pay the price in homage to this God in order to take it. They are like the boy in my analogy, and you can pay the kid out of fear that you might upset the claimed owner of the way across, or you can just take your chances and cross without paying, and probably being cheated. If the real owner shows up and threatens me then I'll just tell him that he should have labeled his bridge better, or gotten more trustworthy agents to collect tolls. If God's real, he's running a lousy business getting pastors and the bible to sell his claim to "the Way".

          October 18, 2013 at 5:42 pm |
      • Doc Vestibule

        And what comes after death?
        Who will Judge? St. Peter? Joseph Smith? Will Ma'at measure your heart against a shu feather?
        Are you 100% certain that you won't be judged unworthy of Valhalla becuase you died peacefully in bed and not on the field of battle?

        There are many gods and many afterlives.
        They can't all be right, but they can all be wrong.

        October 18, 2013 at 1:06 pm |
      • zampaz

        If there were no satan and no hell would there be a need for god to exist?

        October 18, 2013 at 1:25 pm |
        • KGuldin

          God existed prior to Satan and hell. And hell was created for Satan, not for man.

          October 18, 2013 at 2:12 pm |
        • zampaz

          Thank you for your courteous reply. I don't remember satan or hell being created in genesis. Did I miss it? Where is this in the bible?

          October 18, 2013 at 2:26 pm |
        • KGuldin

          I haven't read all of your stuff carefully but I'm assuming you're atheist or at least agnostic. Was your question genuine or just poking fun at the absurdity of god and hell?

          October 18, 2013 at 2:37 pm |
        • zampaz

          Genuine question. I am an agnostic atheist. I don't "poke fun" of people but I do challenge Young Earth Creationists in matters of science.
          I find the history of the OT/NT interesting. I read both a long time ago and can cherry pick a verse or two here and there.

          October 18, 2013 at 2:45 pm |
      • ME II

        @Mathews,
        "Let me explain why religious people think Atheists are evil:"

        Let me explain why Atheists think religious people can be dangerous.

        They think Satan and God exist based on little more than stories and unusual coincidences, and they are willing to dehumanize others who don't believe likewise by calling them "evil".

        October 18, 2013 at 1:39 pm |
      • Felix

        "Religious people think Atheists are people who have been subtly convinced by the devil to believe in themselves more than believing in God ..."

        And what do religious people think about people who aren't atheists but who follow a completely different religion? How is that really any different? They're still "wrong", right?

        October 18, 2013 at 1:52 pm |
      • cedar rapids

        'but thats what Satan wants to convince you.'

        unless of course what satan wants to do is convince the religious to condemn atheists as evil, thus opening them up to hate, which is forbidden. Each time a believer condemns an atheist then I guess satan wins.

        October 18, 2013 at 1:54 pm |
        • KGuldin

          Not all religious people condemn atheists. Relational interactions occur on many different levels. As with any other cultural differnces, 2 parties can either agree to disagree when it comes to certain things. Hatred and condemnation doesn't have to enter into it.

          October 18, 2013 at 2:29 pm |
        • cedar rapids

          Whether all do or not is beside the point. I was answering the specific claim made, which was about:
          'Let me explain why religious people think Atheists are evil:'

          October 18, 2013 at 4:04 pm |
    • ItsMeSpfld

      That's really funny, I can only imagine what people would think.,..... My family, friends, and co-workers don't know that I am, and have been, an atheist for the last 10 years. My husband knows, of course, but no one else. I can only imagine the shock, and the statements "But you're not a bad person! You are kind, and nice, and you bring your children up correctly, to respect others, and with morals!" People who don't actually KNOW an atheist believe that we are some kind of an ogre, a horrible type of person, that has no moral compass. Just because I don't have the threat of everlasting doom hanging over my head, does not mean I am going to be a bad person. Personal responsibility goes a very long way. I want to be able to look at myself in the mirror every morning, and like what I see. And I do. Without their god(s)

      October 18, 2013 at 2:02 pm |
      • cedar rapids

        My step-daughter told her aunt that I was an atheist and the poor woman couldnt even say the word out loud. Her response apparently was 'I didnt know he was an *silently mouthed* atheist!'

        October 18, 2013 at 2:21 pm |
  15. bananas

    Not one has real interest in finding god. Not a single one.

    October 18, 2013 at 12:19 pm |
    • Anon

      Have you tried shoving a bible up your ass?

      October 18, 2013 at 1:08 pm |
  16. bananas

    How to spot an athie. Every time u sense insincerity and lies.

    October 18, 2013 at 12:18 pm |
    • TYRANNASAUR

      I think bananas is bananas....I LOVE BEING AN ATHEIST....FREE FROM GUILT SHAME AND THE FEAR YOU MUST BE SECRETLY LIVING IN....GO PRAY FOR ME....OLOLOLOLOLLOLOLO CRAM GOD WHERE THE SUN DON'T SHINE I ALWAYS SAY.

      October 18, 2013 at 12:23 pm |
    • Alias

      Yes. The RCC is so open and honest.

      October 18, 2013 at 12:31 pm |
  17. bananas

    True. No evidence for god. None. Reborners don't really believe in god. They just like watching idiot atheists go nuts

    October 18, 2013 at 12:16 pm |
    • zampaz

      Wait, no evidence...I thought Ray Comfort and Kirk Cameron demonstrated the perfect design of the banana 😉

      October 18, 2013 at 1:30 pm |
    • Paul

      "No evidence for god. None."

      In other words, you believe there is no evidence, right?

      October 18, 2013 at 1:45 pm |
  18. I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t302MbYcQUQ

    October 18, 2013 at 12:16 pm |
  19. bananas

    Got to love their efforts. Athies pretend to be seekers and ask profound questions only to answer them with nonsense to make them look good. Geniuses

    October 18, 2013 at 12:13 pm |
    • Sara

      Is that you LOL?? ?

      October 18, 2013 at 12:14 pm |
      • I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

        'Athies' is a giveaway, isn't it? Who else says that?

        October 18, 2013 at 12:17 pm |
        • Sara

          I like the name bananas better than LOL?? anyway. He needs it to be clear that the responses are intended as humor (Bill Deacon apparently gets it...I don't, but to each his own). I found it frustrating when people tried erroneously to debate his statements with the LOL?? label which was confusing.

          October 18, 2013 at 12:24 pm |
        • I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

          I don't think he wants to make it clear. If nobody rose to his bait, how else would he feel vindicated?

          October 18, 2013 at 12:27 pm |
        • Sara

          Dave, I thought that at first but then after there was some discussion about whether he was joking he added the word "pithiest" to his name which seemed to be intended to clarify his goal. People kept answering in all seriousness, though, which I guess proves some sort of point.

          October 18, 2013 at 12:50 pm |
        • I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

          Yes, I recall the 'pithiest' addition to his moniker. Heck, it takes all sorts to make a world. If he gets his kicks out of trolling people, good luck to him. At least he's not too mean-spirited in his trolling.

          October 18, 2013 at 12:57 pm |
        • Sara

          Yeah, U haven't noticed him picking on anyone in particular and when he touches on argument it is mostly broad generalizations that are fairly light hearted. Bill thinks he's funny so he has at least one fan. I don't get it at all, but hopefully he's having some fun at least.

          October 18, 2013 at 1:02 pm |
        • Sara

          That was meant to be "I", not "U".

          October 18, 2013 at 1:04 pm |
        • I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that

          To be fair, Bill thinks the cardboard in his mouth is the body of the son of a Late Bronze Age Canaanite war god.

          October 18, 2013 at 1:09 pm |
        • Joey

          That is funny.

          October 18, 2013 at 2:21 pm |
    • In Santa we trust

      Another day, another handle. ho hum

      October 18, 2013 at 12:42 pm |
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