Vatican softens tone toward gays and lesbians
June 26th, 2014
12:14 PM ET

Vatican softens tone toward gays and lesbians

By Delia Gallagher, CNN

ROME (CNN) - The Vatican said Thursday that gays and lesbians must be treated with respect, their children may be baptized in the church, and admitted that Catholic priests are sometimes unsure about how to deal with same-sex couples.

There is a “certain unease at the challenge of accepting these people with a merciful spirit and, at the same time, holding to the moral teaching of the Church,” the Vatican said in a document, called an Instrumentum Laboris.

The 75-page document is a compilation of the results of a survey sent to 114 bishops’ conferences around the world.  Cardinal Lorenzo Baldisseri, General Secretary of the Synod, said that 85% of the conferences responded to the survey.

The document will be used as a guideline for discussions at a synod, a meeting of top Catholic bishops convened by Pope Francis, to be held in Rome in October.

The official name of the synod is "The Pastoral Challenges of the Family in the Context of Evangelization."

Another synod to be held in October 2015, will provide further reflection on the questions before presenting a final document to the Pope.

Well before the Vatican released Thursday's document, a national bishops' conference in Germany and Switzerland said their surveys exposed a wide gap between church teaching and lay Catholics' personal views.

"Most of the baptized have an image of the church that, on the one hand, is family friendly in its attitude, whilst at the same time considering her sexual morality to be unrealistic," the German bishops said, according to National Catholic Reporter.

Bishops in the United States declined to make their survey results public.

While the Vatican document release Thursday does not change church teaching on homosexuality, it aligns with Pope Francis' softer tone toward gays and lesbians, made famous last July with his question, "Who am I to judge?"

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The document firmly rejects gay marriage, for instance, but also said Catholics leaders, “are trying to find a balance between the Church’s teaching on the family and a respectful, non-judgmental attitude towards people living in such unions.”

“A distinction must be made,” the Instrumentum Laboris says, “between those who have made a personal, and often painful, choice and live that choice discreetly so as not to give scandal to others, and those whose behavior promotes and actively – often aggressively – calls attention to it.”

One suggestion recommends, “not using phrases such as ‘gay’, ‘lesbian’ or ‘homosexual’ to define a person’s identity,” in order to “take every aspect of the person into consideration.”

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Another suggestion is a “theological study in dialogue with the human sciences to develop a multi-faceted look at the phenomenon of homosexuality.”

The document also emphasizes that when gay couples request baptism for their children, “the child must be received with the same care, tenderness and concern which is given to other children.”

Other topics to be addressed at the Synod include contraception, and in vitro fertilization, cohabitation, separated, divorced and remarried persons, and teen mothers.

(CNN's Daniel Burke contributed reporting.)

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soundoff (111 Responses)
  1. 19covenant19

    Repent. The KINGDOM of GOD is at hand.
    Great MIRACLES have been discovered in the BIBLE.
    It will change the World forever.


    June 29, 2014 at 6:54 am |
    • TruthPrevails1

      Thou shalt not steal!

      June 29, 2014 at 7:02 am |
    • Reality

      And Matt 3: 2 ("Repent.....) has been rigorously analyzed by many contemporary NT scholars and found to be historically nil. See

      http://www.faithfutures.org/JDB/jdb214.html for added details.

      June 29, 2014 at 7:20 am |
  2. t3chn0ph0b3

    Good for you, Pope. I usually have no patience for religious declarations regarding minority groups, but I guess that's because they mostly all come from a place of ignorance and hatred. If a society demands that a church exist, I'd much rather have one that promotes equal societal treatment for all.

    June 27, 2014 at 1:33 pm |
  3. Joeseph Eclaire

    Good move Francis.
    They got big bucks and can replace the mob dollars you kicked out.
    And perhaps even close the lid on your sordid scandals with the priest.

    June 27, 2014 at 12:25 pm |
  4. jaydavid666

    Every day we must each ask ourselves, Who would Jesus hate?
    Then go out into the world and hate that person the way Jesus commands us to hate.

    June 27, 2014 at 12:24 pm |
    • geezohman

      'Hate' is a strong word, however i do recall something about telling disciples about if in a town visit, not accepted, to shake the dust off the sandals... is that what you mean from a Jesus stand point. Interesting since the world always thinks of Jesus from a 'Love' standpoint (which as I get older) prefer to think of.

      June 27, 2014 at 12:32 pm |
    • Blessed are the Cheesemakers

      Now great crowds accompanied him, and he turned and said to them, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. (Luke 14:25-27 ESV)

      June 27, 2014 at 12:37 pm |
      • thesamyaza

        ops sorry didn't see your post,.. god job

        June 28, 2014 at 1:00 am |
    • thesamyaza

      “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple."
      -Jesus of Nazareth

      June 28, 2014 at 12:58 am |
      • thesamyaza

        Luke 14:26

        New International Version (NaIVe)

        June 28, 2014 at 12:59 am |
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